I’ve never been to Europe before.
I’ve never been on a plane that crossed an ocean, nor have I been in a car that drove on the wrong side of the road.
I’ve never seen sheep in a field, let alone seen them wandering down a two-lane highway with a speed limit of 100 km/h.
And the only time I’ve ever dipped my toes in the Atlantic Ocean was in warm, sunny Florida, nowhere near the northern Atlantic waters.
All of these things were true until last Tuesday, April 26 when Air Transat flight TS 0230 touched down in Dublin, Ireland and I, half awake, stumbled off the plane and into the crisp, if not stereotypical, rain of Dublin.
Before I left for my trip, I got many questions. “Are you excited?” “You must be thrilled!” “What are you going to see?” “Are you excited yet?” (I was beginning to feel a bit like pregnant Miranda in Sex and the City and thought it might get easier to fake my excitement.)
The thing is, I wasn’t all that excited. I didn’t know what to expect. And, since Keith’s mother was to be my guide, I had no idea what we were doing, or where we were going. I didn’t even know what I wanted to do because I didn’t know what was there.
It seemed like from right off the bat, we fired away. I wandered the streets in downtown Dublin in a daze. I visited little shops, the Guinness Factory and toured the Irish countryside (I even had a Tim Hortons coffee over here). And it was all very grand.
And while the Ireland I saw in my head doesn’t really exist in real life (for the record: little stone houses, rolling hills and mountains), parts of it do. I’ve never seen greenery like I did over here. I’ve never been caught breathless from the sites of pure nature, or the sense of history in one city. (After all the medical school at Trinity College Dublin is 300 years old — almost twice the age of my COUNTRY.)
But more than all of that, what I’ll really take away from my experience in Ireland for the past week is the sense of family, belonging and welcoming.
Saturday night, the house was filled with 30 members of my boyfriend’s family. It was the loudest bunch of card games I’ve ever been involved in, but it was also one of the strongest memories I’ll take away with me when I go home.
What trumps Saturday night is the family I was welcomed in to as soon as I stepped off the plane. Keith’s father, mother and sister made me feel like I’ve always been part of the group, part of their family. Not once this week did I feel like an outsider, or someone who didn’t belong. We spent evenings sharing good food and good wine, playing video games and board games and having lots of laughs.
While this trip allowed me to check off all of the things on my to-do list at the top of this blog post, it also allowed me to do it with a group of people who genuinely cared for me, and who I genuinely care for back.
And there’s no doubt, my trip to Ireland wouldn’t have been as grand if it weren’t for that.
So yes, I would highly recommend to anyone they should come to Ireland. But I guarantee your trip won’t be half as great as mine has been.
Thank you, all. We’ll see you soon.












