
My contribution to last year’s Jack Layton Memorial was a can of orange Crush. I’m thinking about returning to city hall to pay my respects again this year.
Dear Jack,
A lot of what you wrote in your last letter resonated with me. But in these past 365 days since you left us, there is one bit that I have taken to heart and worked very hard to make those words ring true in my own life, no matter how hard — or how hopeless — things may seem.
This is for you, Jack:
I believe in you.
Before Jack Layton died, I didn’t believe in myself or my convictions — especially when it came to politics. I didn’t vote with my heart, I voted with my head. I often marked my ballot strategically, in order to help keep the party I didn’t want to win out, instead of trying to elect the party I actually supported.
I always wanted to vote for Jack Layton’s NDP, but because I voted strategically, I never did. And now, I never will be able to cast that ballot.
The provincial election in Ontario last fall was the first opportunity for me to vote for the candidate — and party — I wanted. I didn’t vote strategically or for the candidate in my riding I “knew” was going to win. I voted with my heart. I think that last vote of mine is the most meaningful one I have ever cast.
My friends, love is better than anger.
This is a message I have always tried, not just to believe in, but to practice. There have been people who have hurt me deeply in my life, and I have worked very hard at not being angry with them, and instead forgiving them to the best of my ability.
I can only hope that those who I have hurt in my lifetime are able to do the same thing toward me. Being angry takes too much energy, it’s much easier to love than to hate.
Hope is better than fear.
Ask anyone who knows me (especially my boyfriend), I’m a big giant ‘fraidy cat. I’m scared of our stove, I’m scared of weird noises in the house, I’m scared of lots of things. The biggest thing I’m afraid of though is the unknown. But lately, I’ve been trying to let go of my fears, especially that last one.
So much so that recently I decided to veer career paths. I’m not a journalist anymore, which is something I’ve wanted to be all of my life. It’s scary, but it’s also a new journey that I’m very excited about (and liking very much). I’m hopeful about what’s ahead.
Optimism is better than despair.
Optimism is harder than despair, there’s no doubt about that. But life isn’t always easy. Looking at a glass half full can sometimes put things in a different perspective. You’ll never know what’s about to come around the corner if you give up halfway through.
It is at these times we need to take a page from Jack’s book and smile as big as we can.
So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world.
I already think we are.
Thank you, Jack. For everything.
Please leave your memories of Jack Layton in the comments.











Toronto mayoral race loses its only woman
Sarah Thomson dropped out of the Toronto mayoral race on Tuesday, throwing her support behind George Smitherman in an attempt to stop current front-runner Rob Ford.
Thomson held an early morning news conference at her campaign headquarters where she made the announcement, saying:
Some will applaud Thomson’s move, considering she was trailing in the polls and was not likely to win.
Sarah Thomson dropped out of the Toronto mayoral race to endorse George Smitherman.
However, there’s no doubt that others will see this as another blow to women in politics — losing the only woman who was considered one of the five front-runners will no doubt cause some people concern.
As a woman, I never really got behind Thomson because she was a woman — it’s not how I vote. This being Thomson’s first attempt at politics, it’s also hard for me to get behind her as a genuine candidate (who can forget the kerfuffle when she used her magazine, the Women’s Post, to announce her candidacy?)
The question really boils down to this: Can a woman really run Canada’s biggest city?
Well, they did before amalgamation, but since 1998, both of Toronto’s mayors have been men (Mel Lastman and David Miller). Has the city grown and changed enough that a woman would be unable to handle the portfolio?
Not necessarily.
Was Thomson that woman?
I don’t think so.
Sarah Thomson is a successful business woman, much like Belinda Stronach and others who have entered politics before. But I think she failed to really get the public’s trust before throwing her hat into a big, political job (much like Stronach when she ran for the leadership of the Conservative party).
In order to get a woman elected as mayor in Toronto, I think that woman has to be a councillor and prove herself to the electorate before trying to become mayor of Toronto.
And while even that does not guarantee anything (just look at former mayor Barbara Hall’s failed bid against David Miller in 2003 and former councillor Jane Pitfield’s failed bid in 2007), I think it’s something that will come with time.
It just wasn’t the right time and Sarah Thomson was not the right woman.
(Photo courtesy of Sarah Thomson’s flickr account. See more of her photos here.)